Well, depends on how much vacation he gets a year. (unless he's still in school). He shouldn't be spending that much time. I know I put in quite a few weeks on hunting/fishing vacation (but I get more then the average blue collar guy gets). I always incorporate at least 2 of my vacations with the family, and part of those are just "intimate" girlfriend time (I have full custody of my two kids, so no wife anymore LOL).