Perhaps I could have left out the grow up part but I would offer the guy a cup of coffee and see if there is a civil way to a solution. Funny, that offering up a cup of joe one gets labeled as weak, a liberal or both, which is about as far from reality as it can get. Stewart said it. Don't assume because someone is polite that they will not stand up for themselves or others. I live in the hills of Skagit County where people are polite, friendly and quite capable of taking care of themselves.