NFR The easiest BIG decision I will ever make.

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  1. Codioos

    Codioos Active Member

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    It's time. I have decided to pull the trigger and propose to my girlfriend. She makes me a better man and I see a strong future with her in my life. Pushing me forward to make a better life and sculpting me into a man I want to become. End of the bachelor era.

    It takes a lot to make me weak in the knee's, but I was having a hard time when I asked her dad for his blessing. And just to make it easier on me he took me outside to smoke a cigar and drink fine whiskey. I'll be lucky if I can ask her in one fluid sentance.

    Planning on doing it Christmas day when both of our families are together hanging out and playing games. My only regret is I can only afford a cheaper ring because of all the medical bills as of recent motorcycle accident.

    Not trying to brag or bring attention to myself, just trying to get ready for an easier delivery. Thank you for reading and letting me vent.
     
  2. Mark Mercer

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    Good for you, and best of luck.....Does she fish???
     
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  3. Patrick Gould

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    ditto, but also does she mind if you you fish?
     
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  4. Jeff Sawyer

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    Congrats and good luck!

    If you've got balls enough to ask her Dad the rest should be easy. Rumor has it my Daughter's bf is working up the nerve to ask me for my blessings...If you have a daughter one day you'll understand, no man is ever good enough for your little girl, until one comes along, that might be. If her Dad broke out the Whiskey and cigars you're probably a pretty descent fellow. I wouldn't worry about the size of the ring, most women care more about the size of a guys heart (thank god I didn't make a typo there).

    Take a deep breath and soak every minute of it in...and take notes of what shes wearing, what you have for dinner, every little detail you can remember about the proposal. When she's pissed at you in the future...you can use those details to get out of trouble.
     
  5. hydrological

    hydrological beads are NOT flies and snagging is just ghetto

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    saltwater or freshwater honeymoon ?
     
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    Good for you and congratulations! It's nice to read that she makes a better man of you, but are you also man enough to make a better woman of her? Life's a two-way street you know. Don't worry about the ring. When she makes you a better man she will let you buy her another, larger edition.
     
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  7. dryflylarry

    dryflylarry "Chasing Riseforms"

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    Yeah, to heck what these other guys call "Hall Passes"!!! Good grief! Ha! Anyway, I wish you the best.
     
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    Good for you congratulations. May you both have a Blessed wedding and marriage.
     
  9. Codioos

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    Haha, thanks guys.
    Out fished me the first day I took her to a remote lake. Win.

    Great point. This is why I do homework before I take the test. Thank you for the cheat sheet.

    Not at all. A very understanding woman. Just confused why I fish in the winter time.

    One of the first things her dad said after I asked him was: How long had I thought about it, and that we really do compliment one-another. I am strong where she is weak and visa-versa.

    Hopefully somewhere warm...SALT.
     
  10. saffman

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    All the best Codioos! We started off beyond poverty stricken for the first several years and my wife's ring was practically invisible. She'll love whatever it is as it came from you and accompanied your heart and life. We are coming up on 32 years now and have been more than blessed in so many ways. May you have the same. By the way she got a "replacement" ring in Kauai on our 28th that was a much better "fit"!
     
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    Copy all the advice and good wishes BUT can she row a boat?
     
  12. Lugan

    Lugan Joe Streamer

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    Congrats.

    Now that you are about to become head of a family, take it easy on the motorcycles and other risky stuff like that, OK? And when you announce that your wife is expecting in a year or three, I'll remind you of this x10. Welcome to the world of ultimate personal responsibility.
     
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  13. wadin' boot

    wadin' boot Donny, you're out of your element...

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    Go for it, don't get too much egg nogg down before hand, cream slows down gastric emptying and raises the chances of projectile vomiting
     
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  14. jeff bandy

    jeff bandy Make my day

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    Congratulations. I have some advice for you.(as is customary)

    1. Never fight when you mad. Calm down, then wait for her to calm down. Then talk about it rationally.

    2. The two most important words you can say are NOT "I do" or "Love you" or even "I'm sorry" they are "Yes dear".

    3. Remember, happy wife = happy life

    Been married 17+ years and we have never raised voice at each other.
     
  15. rwbailey05

    rwbailey05 GO COUGS

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    Congrats! I know how you felt when you asked her dad... first time i went to ask her dad i bailed and just had a great conversation with him. Took one of my buddies getting after me the next day to actually pull the trigger. My wife is a farmers daughter, i woke up at 330am before Dad went out to start work and asked him in the middle of the morning. Makes for a good story now!

    The size of the ring will not matter, she will love it no matter what! Dont sweat the small stuff, im new in the marriage game (18 Months) but i know that she loves me more for what i do for her then for what i buy for her!

    Congratulations again
     
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